5-DAY EMAIL COURSE

Unlearn the 5 biggest myths about sex in long-term relationships:

That make you feel broken when you're not, turn romantic getaways into guilt trips, and keep everything you wish you could say bottled up...

So you can move towards a connection where no one has to hide, avoid, perform or keep score.

(Even if you'd rather go the rest of your life without it, this course will help you understand why, and ease the pressure.)

FROM A CERTIFIED SEX & RELATIONSHIP THERAPIST
WITH TWO DECADES OF EXPERIENCE

You’re having it less and less, and worried about what that means…But it doesn’t mean you’re broken, or that your relationship is doomed.

I'm Rachel Levinson.

✔ AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist
✔ EMDR-Certified & IFS-Trained (Internal Family Systems)
✔ 20 years working with individuals & couples
✔ LGBTQ+ Affirming, Kink & CNM Aware
✔ Based in San Diego, serving CA via telehealth

We wish we could just want it with the people we love. But it’s not that simple. When one partner wants more than the other can give, there’s a lot more to it than we’ve been told.That’s why trying to “spice things up,” go on romantic getaways, or "just get it over with” often makes things worse.This course is different. It helps you understand your dynamic from a nervous system and parts work (IFS) lens, so you can find what would actually work for you.

You don’t have to choose between being true to yourself, and keeping your partner happy.

Let's clear up the myths that make sex more stressful than it needs to be.

HERE'S WHAT WE'LL UNPACK TOGETHER OVER 5 DAYS IN THIS EMAIL COURSE —

DAY 1: The Myth of Low Libido
Libido is almost never a biological switch that flips with age or hormones. The real causes of low desire are far more workable than we’ve been led to believe.DAY 2: The Myth of Spontaneous Desire
You don’t have to “want it” out of nowhere to enjoy it. Most healthy adults don’t — and learning how arousal works for you can change everything.DAY 3: The Myth of Fulfilling Your Role
Does being a good partner (and avoiding infidelity) mean doing it even when you don’t want to? Nope. We need a different way to think about it.DAY 4: The Myth of Attraction
Is the spark simply dead for good? More likely, there’s a way to ask for what you want and need without anyone’s feelings being hurt.DAY 5: The Myth of Killing the Magic
Talking about sex, about stress, about what you want — can be the hardest part. To wrap things up, I’ll share what makes it easier.